Helping you move on together when your future lies apart

The end of a relationship can bring a range of emotions from hurt and anger to recognition and acceptance. These emotions matter – often as much as the considerations about circumstances, finances or family – as they are the starting point for your journey towards a different future.

At Berwins, we never forget that and work to understand where you’re coming from – and where you need to get to – before offering any advice on the path you should take.  

If you have reached the point where both you and your spouse have accepted that the relationship is over, and simply want to move forward, then doing so together is an option an increasing number of separating couples are exploring. This sits at the heart of Resolution Together – an amicable approach to separation which allows you to work towards an agreement together with the support and advice of one lawyer.

What does Resolution Together involve?

The process affords a separating couple, who can work amicably and constructively, a space to discuss their goals, needs and finances. This takes place in a series of meetings conducted by a single lawyer, meaning both people receive the same, impartial legal advice.

Other professionals, such as financial advisors or mediators, can be involved throughout the process, as they bring with them the same aim – to provide couples with the information and space they need to reach a resolution which allows them to make a new future.

Once – and only once – both sides are happy with what has been agreed, then a formal agreement is signed, and your lawyer will submit this to the Court on your behalf. The process rarely involves a Court hearing and avoids ongoing correspondence between law firms, just an open and honest discussion about what is best for you and your family, that allows you to make the decisions about your future.

Why are couples choosing Resolution Together?

Put simply, the process helps to reduce the risk of conflict during divorce. We know that no matter where you start from, there is always a danger that the pressures and strains of the divorce process can lead to alienation and dispute, something which comes at a high emotional and financial cost.  Working together limits the chances of such disputes coming up.

In this, Resolution Together also protects future relationships. This is essential, especially where children are involved, and decisions on them and their future will need to be made long after separation.    

Having one lawyer for one couple brings with it a particular number of benefits, as it:

• Minimises cost, helping to maximise funds available for futures apart.
• Ensures your lawyer is focused on finding a solution for you – there is no point scoring or tactics, just an honest appreciation of the situation and a commitment to finding a workable way forward.
• Avoids extensive correspondence between solicitors acting on either ‘side’, something which can add time and the danger of misunderstanding or misinterpretation.

The process gives you complete control over how the separation moves forward, the pace that takes and the questions or issues that are discussed and resolved.

Who is Resolution Together for?

Resolution Together is only appropriate when a separating couple retain a good relationship and are able to work amicably and constructively together. That’s essential and the team at Berwins will work with you to understand your relationship and ensure that working together is an option.

We will also look to understand your needs and circumstances. There are, for instance, cases where separate legal representation – something Resolution Together does not provide – is important, or others where a different approach is more helpful. Our specialist team will work with you to understand that and help you find the best path for you.

Our team of Resolution Together specialists

Berwins’ Danielle Day and William Kaye are not only praised by clients and industry commentators as standout lawyers, they are also committed to helping separating couples find sustainable separation solutions.

That’s why they were among the first lawyers in the country to train and become accredited on Resolution Together. Combining expertise with empathy, the Berwins team will ensure you have the best legal support and advice you need to reach a positive agreement that will be most beneficial for your family.